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作者: asw0926 (要怎麼回熱訊呀?) 看板: AAAAAAAA



Maturity is the ability to control anger and settle differences without violence or destruction.

(成熟就是有不以暴力或毀滅，來控制怒氣和解決差異的能力。)



Maturity is patience. It is the willingness to pass up immediate pleasure in favor of long-term gain.

(成熟就是有耐心，願意為了長期的收獲，錯過及時的快樂。)



Maturity is perseverance, the ability to sweat out a project or a situation in spite of heavy opposition and discouraging setbacks.

(成熟就是有毅力，不管強烈的反對和令人灰心的挫折，堅持到最後。)



Maturity is the capacity to face unpleasantness and frustration, discomfort and defeat, without complaint or collapse.

(成熟就是有面對不愉快和沮喪、不舒服和失敗，卻沒有一絲怨言或可能崩潰的能力。)



Maturity is humility. It is being big enough to say, "I was wrong." And when right, the mature person need not experience the satisfaction of saying "I told you so."

(成熟就是羞辱。是成熟地可以說「我錯了」。

當自己是對的時，成熟的人不需經由說出「我早就告訴過你了」來體會滿足感。)



Maturity is the ability to make a decision and follow through. The immature spend their lives exploring endless possibilities and then do nothing.

(成熟是擁有做成決定並貫徹到底的能力。

 不成熟的人浪費他們的人生去探索無止盡的可能性，但終究一事無成。)



Maturity means dependability, keeping one's word and coming through in a crisis. The immature are masters of alibi. They are conflicted and disorganized. Their lives are a maze of broken promises, former friends, unfinished business and good intentions that never materialize.

(成熟代表依賴性，遵守承諾並安然渡過危機。

 不成熟的人是提出不在場證據的專家，他們相互矛盾且毫無組織。

 他們的生活是毀壞的承諾、以前的好友、未完成的事務，和從未實現的好意。)



Maturity is the art of living in peace with what we cannot change, the courge to change what we know should be changed, and the wisdom to know the difference.

(成熟是和我們不能改變的事物和平相處的藝術，

 改變我們知道必需改變的事物的勇氣， 和知道兩者不同之處的智慧。)